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Question: From time to time I receive odd messages from girls saying that "she is a refugee and a doughter of a Dr. XXX, who was into gold and crude oil business, but he was killed and she managed to escape with  very important  documents which covers her father's deposition of money (some US$ millions) etc.". In the end I was asked to do something to help the girl etc. What does it mean and what it is all about?

Answer: Important! Beware of scam! If you receive messages like this:

hello, my name is XXX am 22 years live in senegal i see your profil and i like it i will like you to contact me with my email so that i will send you my pictures .please email me with (XXXX@yahoo.com hoping to hear from you.

hello my name is XXX,i saw your profile i decide to mail you, how are you today.i hope all is well.i am 22 years, please can you send you mail to my mail adderss so that i can tell you more about my self,here is my mail adderss(XXXX@yahoo.com) believe we can move from here!I am waiting for your mail to my email address above.ann(Remeber the distance or colour does not matter but love matters alot in life.

(messages may vary in style and certain words but they still are definitely recognizable) then you may be sure you are dealing with a some kind of a so-called Nigerian scam scheme.

Profile of the girl may contain the following abracadabra:

i am nice and good looking girl looking for i am nice and good looking girl looking for nice mannice mani am nice and good looking girl looking for i am nice and good looking girl looking for nice mannice man

Do not reply to these messages, delete them from your mailbox and send message to KissMe admin (ssv012@mail.ru) asking to remove profile of the scammer.
Usually we spot scammers themselves and remove their profiles immediately. But at present we get from 60 to 100 scammer's profiles a month, they are very efficient and so we may miss a couple or two.

Important! Do not send any money or in any way help the scammers to make their schemes work. Do not send money to nobody. Do not send money to anybody, especially if she is a young very pretty girl in a hard situation holding her ill grandma on her tender hands etc. Do not pay for airtickets, visas, teddybears etc. after the second-third email message. Do not pay for anything.

This is an absolutely free site helping to meet people from different countries and cultures totally FREE. This is a non-profit website. There are no "mail order brides" here. We do not sell emails, contacts, profiles, photos, letters, translations et cetera. Any request for money originated from someone registered at our site is considered as SCAM, and scamming profiles are to be removed immediately.

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Q: I see a lot of services in the net who engaged in dating-russian-girl activity. Why is that and how to tell a good service out of many others?

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A: This is a highly profitable business. Some internet-based outfits make millions, selling profiles and emails of russian (ukrainian, belorussian etc) brides. The best agencies offer a full spectre of services, starting from translating letters to organazing trips, visas etc. There are literally thousands of agencies. A huge demand from both sides gave a rise to a new russian brides industry that is gaining popularity, and a lot of individuals found many dishonest ways of making money out of bringing people together. So, if you want to find a partner abroad, you should be really aware: there are a lot of opportunities, but also there's a lot of scam.

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Q: I always wonder, why Russian girls want to meet, date or marry foreign men? Where is the trick? What, the girls do not want their good old russian guys as partners?
A: Good question.
Yes, a lot of Russian girls are not against marrying an interesting foreign man.
There are many reasons for that: Russian women are considered to be very attractive, and foreign men have an image (among many Russian women) of being intelligent, wealthy, and interesting partners. But of course, not all the women in Russia or Ukraine want to marry abroad. Generally, the women who decide to find a foreign husband can be very different and can have completely different motivations. Some women are sincerely looking for a partner to create a family together, some women just want to have fun, others want to make money. So, the following classification might be helpful:

"Family-Oriented" Woman. She is looking for a sincere relationship and wants to create a real stable family with a husband who will love her, understand her, and care about her. Usually, she's about 25 to 50 years old. She would like to have a safe enviroment for her family and - partially - this makes her look for the future husband abroad, because it is considered that a foreigner can have a much more stable situation (socially and financially), than a Russian. Perhaps, she had already had a husband, but the first marriage didn't work out very well...
She does not necessarily want to leave their home country, usually, the main criteria is well-being of the future family, for which the place is not so important.
"Russian Lover". She's not family oriented, but she's open and she wants to have nice time and to find an interesting man to spend time with. It doesn't matter if he's a foreigner or not, the main thing is that he's pretty, charming, and interesting to talk with. A man might have a lot of nice time with such a woman, and perhaps, it would be an ideal introduction for an interesting relationship, that could maybe grow into something more serious in the future... The only problem is that this kind of women do not usually look for a husband deliberately. There's more chance to meet them accidentally or at a party.
"Russian Blonde". This is a special kind of woman. When she was a young (17-20) pretty woman, she met a handsome "new Russian" with a lot of money, and fell in love with him and with the ambiance of success around him. She got used to indulge all her needs and to get what she wanted. However, their "new Russian" man was letting himself too much: having so much money, power, and charisma, he was getting with many other women. At one moment, the "blonde" had enough of being just "one of many", and broke the relationship with her rich friend. However, such a "beautiful girl" shouldn't be alone, so she's settled to find a worthy substitute to her old friend, who will worship only her, and will let her indulge into her old habits.
She will most likely not want to leave Russia, because it is very important for her to be able to show the new husband to her girlfriends and to be seen.
"Russophobiac". She despises Russia and Russians, so her main goal is to emigrate. Usually, her first and main condition is to be able to live abroad, and deep inside she doesn't care about the relationship. If necessary, she will be a slave to her future husband, only to be able to leave Russia.
"Money Maker". This is a dangerous type. Her main goal is to make money, so a long-term relationship is not on her agenda. The most important is to get a regular allowance from the future husband. Usually, this kind of people come from poor families and are not able to do anything by themselves. However, some of them are just "players": they get pleasure in sucking out the money, and then dissappearing. There were a lot of cases, when a woman like this would engage into writing over the internet with a foreign man, and then at one moment ask some money to buy a plane ticket to be able to meet. So, a naive "husband" would send his "future wife" a check for $1000 US and never hear about her again.

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Q: I liked a girl on your site and tried to communicate with her by email; but it appears she cannot read english and I do not know russian, so what to do in this case?
A: This is a usual situation, because many of the girls have very little English or do not know the language whatsoever. This is why we call this a romantic adventure :)
Regarding translation, contact me and I can arrange free translation of a first introduction letter to your girl, and her first letter to you, if you like. Then, if you like to continue correspondence, I may refer you to a good translator with very reasonable prices.

And of course, ask the girl to improve her english and take some courses.

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Q: I have sent around 100 letters to girls and received no response, why is that?
There are lots of reasons why girls do not respond. Some of them are:

- Ladies change their emails quickly. Try to contact those newly added.
- You write in language a girl does not understand.
- You write in russian, but girls cannot read your message due to incorrect cyrillic encoding.
- You send stereotyped messages like "I liked you, write me". The problem is that any pretty-looking lady with free email receives hundreds of letters each week. They must be busy as worker-bees to process all those revelations, so all one-line messages go to a trash bin as likely as not.

- You send them a 600 kb photo where you are pictured in red bra sitting on a white elephant.

Jokes apart, just try to be realistic and don't get discouraged.

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Q: It seems they just do not like me! Why they do not love me?
I dunno.

There is a myth about russian girls describing them as some pretty silly approachable things from a hungry beggardom easily tempted by a ten dollar bijouterie. This is not so, of course. Most ladies from Russia do like financially independent gentlemen, this is a "must" from their point of view, but money not always decide everything. The key word is love.
Any girl from any country usually considers "love" to be sacred of sacred of things, something most important in life and russian girls constitute no exception to this rule. You just cannot expect "love" flame up from a couple of email messages.

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Look, it seems plenty of russian girls have names that sound alike: Tania, Tanya, Tatiana, Tatyana, Tanechka, Tatka, Tan'ka, Tan'ushka etc. I just cannot figure it out, why there are so many similar names??
This is one and the same name - Tatiana. Other versions are misspelling or pet names.

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Q: You claim the site is totally free, but how you manage to support the service?

A: Yes, the site is 100% free, and should be free forever. So far the web space is free (thanks to kindness of our host, God bless him!), the dating script is free (thanks to AZDG team), and other expenditures like internet time, support of a domain name and administrators' work we are able to cover ourselves.

We are partners of some commercial dating sites, but affiliate %% for the ads are so scarce that the first expected 10$ check should come in a couple of years. So we cannot call it a profit at the moment.

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I receive messages from someone registered at kissme.com.ua by name XXX who offers me job in a hotel or something like this.
Such accounts will be terminated in accord with the Terms of Use Agreement Clause 3:
3. Non Commercial Use by Members. The Web site is for the personal use of individual Members only and may not be used in connection with any commercial endeavors. Organizations, companies, and/or businesses may not become Members and should not use the Service or the Web site for any purpose. Illegal and/or unauthorized uses of the Web site, including collecting usernames and/or email addresses of members by electronic or other means for the purpose of sending unsolicited email and unauthorized framing of or linking to the Web site will be investigated, and appropriate legal action will be taken, including without limitation, civil, criminal, and injunctive redress. 

Please report about such activities.

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Q: I like the service, can I donate something to support the site?
A: Please write me and we talk it over.

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Q: I have some commercial proposition. Can we discuss the matter?
A: Of course, let me know by email.
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